The big day!!

alright... I know all of you guys have been waiting and waiting for this blog to come out but I've been enjoying the power of not telling you anything!!! mwahahaa.... okay okay here it is..

So as you all know I've been pretty busy these past couple of months but nothing compared to the 2 last weeks before the wedding! It was insane! Those of you that think that planning a wedding is easy.. well like you order the flowers and get the invitations and get the church... pretty easy ?? (i used to be one of those people) well I've got news for you!!!!! IT TAKES A LOT OF TIME to do a wedding especially when you're the bride and you don't have a wedding planner and that makes you one... yah.. pretty nerv wrecking!! :) but in the end it all turns out perfect and you're happy with what you were able to do!

But I gotta tell you.. the 2 weeks before the wedding are always the worst!! We planned our weeks so that we would have like one big thing and maybe 2 small things to do every day.. that would leave us time to take everything easy and still remain calm and enjoy the wedding! Well it turned out that there was a lot of last minute issues (which I knew there would be so I was prepared for that) and of course you have some of your friends call you and ask you if you have any TIME to hang out with them before the wedding and you're like.. umm.. why didn't you think of calling me earlier.. try a MONTH earlier!!! They just think I have nothing to do before the wedding! oh and yes.. of course they also try calling you on the wedding day just a few hours before you're about to go to the church and you're sitting at the hair and make up place and they ask you if you're nervous??? yah... if I can give any advice to any of you.. DON'T DO THAT!!! The bride is nervous enough and about to snap at anyone and anything and you calling them will only make it worse! TRUST ME!!! So whatever last minute calls you have to make do it the night before or call someone else!

So now I'll tell you about the big day that some like to call ''the best day of your life'' or ''a girl's dream come true'' or any other fancy name. Of course I agree with the two but I wouldn't say that my wedding day was the only best day of my life or my only dream come true day.. I believe that everyone has many best times and days of their lives and of course you don't only dream of one thing in your whole life therefore you have many dream-come-true's!!!! One of my dream-come-true's is my lovely husband Tito! He is everything I was looking for in a man and a lot more! I never thought I would find a man of my ''dreams'' that would actually excist and stay with a girl like me! One of the best days of my life was when he asked me to marry him and the other was when he actually married me! These are just a few of my happy days!!

So now about the big day (finally)!! My day began at 6 am with my mom yelling at me because she was stressed out.. after crying for a little bit Tito's dad picked me up to take me to the hair and make-up place. After staying there for hours and hours and having to deal with ppl calling me at the very last minute and everyone was just annyoing me so much!!! We got to the church a little before than we were supposed to so that gave me time to rest and calm down! When it was time to go stand behind the door and walk in I felt like nobody was speaking my language and nobody understood what I was trying to tell them about taking my coat and giving me the flowers and picking up my dress so it wouldn't get dirty... I was all alone in the world with a bunch of creatures that reminded me of people but they couldn't speak my language!! So harsh I know poor me!! The doors opened and it was time to walk in.. it all happened so fast I didn't even have time to be nervous or faint or anything and before I knew it I was being kissed and walking out the door! I honestly expected it to be something else than it actually was! I was very surprised to be feeling very comfortable and not really nervous... but when it was time to put the ring in his finger I did get a little teary. I was glad to see so many of my friends there and I think that was what made me feel so comfortable!

The afterparty with a few closer friends was awesome too!!! We got so many flowers and presents and Dawn baked the best tasting brownie-chocolate-cake-thingies ever!!!! Thank you Dawn!! I should be getting my pictures next week and then I'll share them all with you faithful readers!!

Tito has been so amazing these past weeks (well of course he's amazing all the time) he has been very patient and caring and loving and as soon as we said our ''i do''s he's been very romantic (i'm talking good smelling candles and flowers and massages and whatever else!!!!).

This married life is so much more and so much better than I expected it to be! And a day doesn't go by when we don't tell eachother that we love eachother and we're so glad we got married! We are SO blessed!!!

Thank you everybody for coming to the wedding and thinking of us! Keep us in your prayers and keep calling us and hanging out with us!!! We leave in about 2 weeks so if you feel like you love us now and will love us in the future give us a call!!!

(sorry this blog is too long to read it through again and check for any spelling mistakes.. so.. deal with it!)